Preferred Space

A commenter in a closed group who is NOT a fan of the Southeastern Conference (SEC) questioned, given the propensity of some SEC fans to flaunt their racism, how “people of color come to terms with wanting to put on those colors and rep that establishment.”

I felt compelled to remind him that racism is not confined to the south; that, especially in the last year, very few college campuses have escaped incidents of racial vandalism or assault, and that, given the emphasis America has put on education, I would expect the demographics of the marquee schools in the south to reflect their state’s population.

And that people of color attend and represent our state schools in the same way we put on the uniform of the U.S. military…in the same way we live in a land where white men have behaved badly for over 500 years…in the same way we live in the thirteen cities that kill black men at higher rates than the U.S. murder rate, or states that elect obvious racists to government offices.

Some protest the systems from the outside; some join in and fight for changes from within and some just try to survive. But we haven’t protested, fought and survived as a people only to allow the overt bigotry of others to stop us from existing in our preferred spaces.

And Roll Tide…

Inhale Space, Exhale Segregation…
Inhale Rights, Exhale Restriction…
Inhale Choice, Exhale Constriction…
Just Breathe

#JustBreathe
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Intentional Impact

Self-awareness is scary and hard. Because once you understand the consequences of your choices, once you realize the responsibility for your life choices lie with you, once you acknowledge your role in creating your life, you have to choose to do something …or not.

You can choose to intentionally impact your life or not choose and be unintentionally be impacted by your life. Not choosing is a choice.

People can be divided into three groups. Those who make things happen, those who watch what happen, and those who wonder what happened”. ~ Anonymous

Inhale Intention, Exhale Accidental…
Inhale Choice, Exhale Hesitation…
Inhale Responsibility, Exhale Immaturity…
Just Breathe…

#JustBreathe
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Acceptance

I believe our God given gifts and talents and personality are to be used to achieve our purpose. But whether or not we use those gifts, apply our personalities or achieve our purpose is up to each of us based on our personal beliefs. It’s no one else’s business

Grace says you have nothing to give, nothing to earn nothing to pay.” Charles R. Swindoll

Inhale Acceptance, Exhale Rejection…
Inhale Embrace, Exhale Tolerate…
Inhale Grace, Exhale Judgment…
Just Breathe…

#JustBreathe
#Strengths

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Bonds

We sometimes struggle trying to force family connections not of our creation fit some expectation of what we think they should be, ignoring the reality of what they are. And the reality is, the bonds that bind us together are often blood but could be shared backgrounds or might be based on similar interests and experience.

If your tribe is your family, that’s great. But if your crew is created with those who have chosen to co-journey with you, that is grace.

Friendship isn’t about who you’ve known the longest, it’s about who walked in to your life, said “I’m here for you,” and PROVED it.” Author Unknown

Inhale Bonds, Exhale Shoulds…
Inhale Bonds, Exhale Have-tos…
Inhale Bonds, Exhale Musts…
Just Breathe…

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Choice

We are given free will to make our own choices.
We can choose to believe, or not…
We can choose to love, or not…
We can choose to live in and on purpose, or not.

I’ve made my choices, I’ve done my part and I’m thanking Him for all the rest.

Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” Philippians 4:6-7 NIV

Inhale Stillness, Exhale Stress…
Inhale Calm, Exhale Chaos…
Inhale Peace, Exhale Chatter…
Just Breathe…

#JustBreathe
#Freedom

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